www.wholeheartedly-sudaniya.blogspot.com

Published in The Citizen Newspaper – June 26th, 2013 in my weekly column Blography of Sudan

The web address reads: “wholeheartedly Sudaniya” (wholeheartedly Sudanese), the title bar: “I have no tribe, I’m Sudanese” and in her introduction of herself the blogger (Reem) says “I am a Sudanese journalist blogging for a better Sudan.[…]I am a freelance journalist with an interest in human rights, development, politics and gender issues”. I was therefore not surprised when the word counting tool came back with the results of the most used words in this blog. The top five most used words were: “her, she, Sudan, press and newspaper”! This is a blogger who is obviously and admirably committed to her causes. Reem started her blog in 2007 and in these six years of frequent blogging we see her grow both as a journalist and an activist. From the curious student raising and exploring questions about her surrounding and the issues that matter the most to her in posts such as “Women and Men in Islam, are they equal?”, emerged a distinguished journalist. Reem’s writing style became expository and in many cases even investigative, whether she is reporting about student activists in Medani or sexual harassment against women working in biscuit factories in Khartoum, Reem tells us what we probably wouldn’t read about in the newspapers. Her success as a journalist is evident in many of her recent posts as they come accompanied with links to publications and websites were they were published. Like a journalist’s Reem’s topics vary from current affairs as she recently addressed the proposed media law in Sudan, controversial issues as she brings to us “the voices of circumcision” and introducing new “pictures of Sudan”. However the blog also have a personal touch to it. Reem often shares her experiences with her readers in the form of a book review, a story of a trip or her “random thoughts”. Reem, the wholeheartedly-sudaniya is also “an aspiring scriptwriter” as I found out reading a post about a discussion on the topic on BBC radio that she was asked to join. From this multi-talented blogger it was not an easy task to pick one post to share with you. The following is a post Reem categorized under “violence, women and writing”. Enjoy it.

Pain for Beauty: the Dilemma of Facial Cutting in Sudan Sunday, (posted on November 20, 2011)
This post is part of the series ‘Culture and Human Rights: Challenging Cultural Excuses for Gender-Based Violence’ hosted by Gender Across Borders and Violence Is Not Our Culture.
In a spacious house in Fetihab, a neighborhood in the city of Omdurman in Khartoum state, Soad Al -Tijani, a widow in her 70s recounts her traumatizing experience to her grandchildren and me, a journalist and the daughter of her niece.
She is telling us the story of her facial cuts. Every few minutes she stops her tale to underscore how lucky we are to be born in the contemporary world where practices such as facial cuts have vanished. She was not so lucky. Her round face bares three deep cuts on each cheek.
Facial cuts are common in some Sudanese tribes. In the North, many women were subjected to this practice until it began dying out in the 1950s.
The cuts are different from tribe to tribe. The most common kind is the one-eleven (111) cuts on both cheeks.
Women glorified facial cutting and they believed that it enhanced beauty and that is why the prettier and chubbier women were cut before others.
At the tender age of 9, Soad was taken by her aunt to undergo facial cuts or “sholouk” as they are called in Sudan.
“I was made to lie down while a very large woman was sitting cross-legged on the floor and holding my head on her lap, two were holding my arms so I wouldn’t move and one was sitting on a stool ontop of my chest,” recalls Soad.
She couldn’t turn her face or move any part of her body. She was still as the woman on the stool cut both cheeks with a razor.
“The razor was very large and looked like a nail clipper, they literally dig the skin out of each cut, ” said Soad.
Her grandchildren and I were disgusted by the ordeal and continued bombarding her with questions. The youngest in the room, Mustafa, is still in high school and did not utter a single word. When I asked him what he thought, he said that he agreed with me that women were subjected to a lot of pain.
“No better word describes facial cutting other than the word crime,” said Soad interrupting our loud discussion.
According to Soad, her mother was too scarred to take a strong stance against her powerful aunt. When her young daughter was brought home with a swollen face and neck, the mother couldn’t look at her for weeks.
“They dipped cotton in a black liquid and placed it on my face to stop the bleeding and my mother took me to my aunt’s house for weeks to reapply fresh cotton,” said Soad who said that her father was also against it.
Family and societal pressure is strong in Sudan. In the past it was worse with extended families living in one house. A child was seen as belonging to the whole family. Even though Soad’s father was against facial cutting, he told her to ask for thinner and less deep cuts as a compromise. But when the women came to cut her face, she couldn’t negotiate with them and ended up with the most severe and deep kind of cuts.
Her eldest brother, a journalist and writer was completely against the practice. He didn’t talk to their parents for three days as punishment.
Facial scarring is very rare in contemporary Sudan. Most women who were subjected to it are either deceased or are at least in their 60s and few young women abide by it. Perceptions about beauty have dramatically changed over the last decades; modern Sudanese women would never imagine being facially cut.
“I never thought about doing it to my daughters,” said Soad.
Soad is proof that culture can and does change.

by Alaa Khier

by Alaa Khier

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